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A WORD WITH YOU
By Ron Hutchcraft
#4864 - "What They Forgot to Tell Us Providers"
Ephesians 5:25

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        I was teaching at a training school for people entering youth ministry 
when I learned about a call home that must have been heartbreaking for the 
dad who made it. The school was three weeks long, and dad had already been 
gone for over two weeks. He was seriously missing his wife and two-year-old 
son, and they were missing him. After waiting patiently in the long line that 
formed every day after classes at the lobby pay phone, he finally got to talk 
to his wife. When he asked how his son was doing, she said, "Not too well, 
honey. Yesterday he came up to me and said, 'Mommy, is Daddy dead?'" Ouch!

        I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about 
"What They Forgot to Tell Us Providers."

        That little guy was reflecting what many a child feels, the 
"missingness" of the man in his life. Not long ago I was talking with a 
friend who has been looking for a job that wasn't seasonal and sporadic like 
the work he's been doing, and something that would give him and his family a 
better and steadier income. He was on the verge of committing himself to a 
career opportunity that would mean better money but would take him away from 
home for long weeks at a time. When I questioned the idea, he said, "Well, I 
need to provide for my family." Well, we guys were raised on that.

        My friend was right about being a provider for his family. In 1 
Timothy 5:8, the Bible says, "If anyone does not provide for his relatives, 
and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse 
than an unbeliever." Strong words. But that's only part of the story. As my 
friend was considering a career that would provide financially but take him 
away from his family, he may have been missing a point someone forgot to tell 
us guys about being the provider. It's about much more than providing 
materially. Our word for today from the Word of God reveals the rest of the 
provider story.

        Ephesians 5, beginning with verse 25, tells husbands, "Love your 
wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her to make 
her holy - and to present her to Himself as a radiant church, without stain 
or wrinkle." God has established the man as provider, but of much more than a 
roof and groceries. It's clear that he's to provide emotionally and 
spiritually for his wife - to nurture her, to love and support and encourage 
her - helping her become "radiant."

        A man is called by God to be the emotional and spiritual provider for 
his children, as well. Ephesians 6:4 says, "Fathers, do not exasperate your 
children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the 
Lord." Dads are trusted by the Heavenly Father to be their child's coach, and 
umpire, and biggest fan, and encourager. When my friend realized a new career 
would rob his children of that, he changed his course to a job that would 
provide, not just the things his family needs, but the man his family needs.

        For a man to be what the Bible calls a provider, he's got to give more 
than money to his family - he has to give himself. To love, to nurture, to 
develop, to stay in touch with their ever-changing needs, you have to be 
there. Many a man has excused himself from the hard but rewarding work of 
building his family by hiding behind the provider myth - that all is well if 
I just provide materially for them. That's the easy part of being your 
family's provider. The big assignment is to be consistently available for 
what your family needs most: your hugs, your advice, your attention, your 
praise, your laughter, your shoulder.

        Many a man who has paid the mortgage and stocked the fridge has, in 
heaven's eyes and his family's eyes, failed as a provider because he didn't 
provide himself to them. The past can't be changed, but the future is yet to 
be written. Be the total provider your family so desperately needs, and make 
the rest of your days together the best of your days.

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